university of life

When reviewing my life goals it would appear all the little things on the list  of things to do remains mostly unchanged.  1. Improve your health by weight loss. Eat better. Rest better. Move better. 2. Improve your finances by saving for the future. 3. Self improvement by learning about new things that interest you on an ongoing basis. 4.  Improve yourself to become a kinder, more gentle and wiser version of yourself. Well, improvement does happen over time to be sure. The types of improvements that happen are more dictated by circumstance than any on a  list. Life is the best editor there is.  It does not compromise. It knows what next needs to be done. I am now 55 years old. Looking at retirement by perhaps age 60. The last 4 years of my life have been mostly focused on helping my aging father manage the last stage of his life. For being now well into his 90th decade he is in extremely good health. The most disturbing aspect of this time for him and for me is a slow